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Willing_Position_169

2025-01-19 09:28:25

WIBTA if I don’t let my dad come to the birth of his first grandchild?

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2025-01-19 09:57:01

AITAH for not saying no

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Who goes under full general anesthesia for a c-section? Is this legit?

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Yeah it’s legit, wish it wasn’t. Without going into too much personal detail, I found out when I was 6 weeks pregnant about a health condition I didn’t know about involving my skull/spine. I cannot have a follow up MRI until after baby is born to see the full extent of the spine situation as I only had the first testing. Anesthesiologist said she wasn’t comfortable doing an epidural/spinal due to risk of intracranial pressure and brain stem hemorrhage. Options became completely unmedicated vaginal birth or all the way under for cesarean. I also have a seizure disorder. Neurologist and neurosurgeon agreed with anesthesiologist and due to risk of seizure in high stress and high pain situation it was the safest option for me and baby.

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I’m sorry to hear about your health conditions. Look, I’m not estranged from my parents, and I still wouldn’t want them there when I had my son. You can’t tell how you’ll feel, and in any event these are your special moments. I’m not susceptible to guilt tripping from people who aren’t using logic and make no sense. You shouldn’t either. Do want you want for the birth.

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I think I’ve known the days of no contact would come again I just needed a push to see it through. The issue is I don’t want him at the hospital at all, not even the waiting room. I’ll probably have to edit to clarify that since lots of people seem to think this is a decision about who gets to see me be cut open (which is nobody). Bf and our moms will be the ones in recovery with me. All 3 of them are on board with the whole dad will not be allowed in topic. It’s me that had a moment of guilt and questioning about it

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I’m so sorry this happened to you. If it’s not an enthusiastic yes, it’s a no. It sounds like you weren’t in a state to give an enthusiastic yes no matter what. NTA

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