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2025-03-04 02:19:15

I(18F) just started dating my muslim boyfriend (18M) need some advice

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No. Don’t do anything you don’t feel comfortable doing! Look, even IF he does love you, religion is a BIG DEAL, family is a BIG DEAL! If both don’t work for you, which is VERY likely, this relationship will not last in the long run. I know you like him but you’re young and barely starting your own life, do not take on the stress of a grown woman. Trust me, it may seem like he doesn’t care what his family thinks and you may think that you don’t care either or that this is something the both of you can get over, but it will hurt and it WILL affect you both, in turn affecting the relationship as a whole. If he’s not ready to be disowned by his family but you’re still together somehow (very likely he won’t leave his family as he’s muslim and family is very important to them) then that means you’re going to be a scapegoat for them for as long as you’re together. It seems they already have his life and family values planned for him and you’re just not in it nor do they want you. Are you ready for that type of discomfort ? Feeling constantly unwanted and unsupported? As someone who’s around your age I know exactly how you feel and I just want the best for you. I want you to avoid all that unnecessary anxiety and pain. You don’t have to leave him, at the very least have a SERIOUS conversation about what he plans to do about his family, what his true intentions are with you, what you want to do in your life! Be 100% honest bc it could save you. Don’t just be honest to him, be honest to yourself. Good luck girly 🫶🏽!

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THANK YOU SO MUCH

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You talk about how when he started talking about marrying you it made you uncomfortable because he was moving too fast. Even before the religious aspect of it came in. You say you didn't think he would be so "lustful" and you're afraid that that's all he thinks about. I'm not saying that religion isn't an issue, just that it sounds like you're in a relationship you don't want to be in. You're young. You'll find someone who jives with you eventually

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well it’s just i didn’t think you’d talking about marriage a week into dating that’s why i thought it was moving to fast which made me feel uncomfortable.

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