Where exactly IS all the male gaze yuri?

I always hear people complaining about "yuri made by men" but where is it? I'm not saying it doesn't exist but the vast majority of popular yuri manga and anime seem to have been created by women. Hell, yuri doesn't seem to have that much sexual content in general, so I'm wondering where everyone is finding all this horny porny yuri. Like lets say I hypothetically wanted to look for yuri-for-straight-guys, where would I even begin?

Actually now that I think about it, there's quite a few explicit GL Korean manhwa out there but I never hear anyone complain about those despite most of those ALSO being created by women.

Is there something I'm missing?