Are all men terrible?

I’ve been celibate for nine months and within four of those nine months I was talking to a guy and just recently found out that he has a fuck buddy that he’s been fucking all four months of the time that we’ve been talking. I’m just so annoyed because it just feels like I can have self-control, but not a single man in this world can, it makes me so furious because it makes me think of all the women that are in marriages or relationships are just putting up with men fucking other women with or without their knowledge and just accepting it like is this what relationships are supposed to be? Every man I’ve been with has cheated on me and honestly this seems to be the norm.

I feel like I can’t find a single man who is worthy of dating. Meaning somewhat attractive, brushes his teeth and keeps up with his hygiene. I don’t even care about working out or height but they all somehow have some kind of girl that sleeps with them and they don’t see that as a problem.

I’m so confused because from my experience that’s the norm for men: they have a woman that they want in a relationship with who obviously takes care of the dishes, cooking and cleaning laundry, kids, etc. AND SEPARATELY a woman they sleep with. They never seem to think the woman they are with as worthy of sex while random are.

it’s just so annoying because I want a real relationship where I can be loyal to someone and they are loyal to me but every time I try to find that is like I’m barded with men who either just wanna fuck or men who pretend like they want what I want But a couple months later I found out that’s not the truth. How do women put up with this?