Criteria; used car, 40 mile daily commute, hatchback or SUV, budget ~$25k, prefer hybrid or EV. Thoughts?

Hey all,

Gonna keep this short and sweet and focus on the details:

Basics

  1. Looking for a crossover/small SUV
  2. Not interested in new cars, only used
  3. Must be a crossover/hatchback/SUV
  4. Must have some basic autonomous features

Here are what I am looking for for a used car, importance rated out of 10:

  • Autonomous features
    • 9/10. My commute is 20 miles each way, with rush hour traffic. Roughly 90% highway driving. Also looking to do road trips (ik ik, easier said than done with an EV).
  • Comma AI support
    • 9/10. I really really really want this.
  • Comfort
    • 7/10. I am 6'3" and my partner is 5'11", we're both slender.
  • Reliability
    • 8/10. I realize newer cars are more reliable, but EVs have me on the fence. This encompasses warranty support.
  • Driving Experience / Handling
    • 5/10. I'm a fairly conservative driver. Currently have a '16 Mazda CX-5. I live in the Pacific NW.
  • Noise
    • 7.5/10. I really like quiet cars, but realize I'll have to make sacrifices.
  • Styling
    • 9/10. I realize this is fully subjective, but I want something that looks sharp.
  • Fuel Economy
    • 8/10. I'd love a hybrid or an EV.
  • Safety
    • 5/10.

Thanks in advance!