How do people stay calm during souls games?

How do souls games fan not get discouraged by the games like bloodborne? Some even 100% all of them while I'm stuck in yharnam central in BB knowing I'm cooked if I'm struggling this much during what I suppose is the tutorial section of the game. I quit for the day questioning my decision of purchasing BB as my first souls before elden ring on ps store. I don't hate the games or anything like that as it was my attempt to get into the souls games, and I thought it would be the most beginner friendly next to ER.