Crime against men

I’m a 31 M, permanent resident of Uttar Pradesh working in Bengaluru. I got married in Dec 2023. 5 days after my marriage, on my trip to Kerala, I discovered through her chats on Instagram that my wife already had an affair and she was planning to have a baby with the guy and continue the affair. I separated with her right after that.

I met various lawyers, many told it would take 6-7 years to settle and that they would pile cases fake against me and suggested me to settle this mutual. My family has been struggling for almost 1.5 years now, asking them to settle but they are either asking hefty sum of money which we can’t afford or trying to forcefully leave the girl at my parents home. They even came one day with 12 people to my parents home to forcefully leave the girl and her mom. My family has to go through so much due to this, the entire time has been so traumatic.

I’m traumatised, not sure what I should do. Feels like to run away from all of this.