Active duty retiring soon with TJO. Onboarding paused?

Morning,

I had a TJO, onboarding is all complete, security investigation complete (I already got a TS/SCI). We are in the process of selling our house as I go on terminal and retiring from active duty soon. My wife submitted her resignation for her teaching position as I was supposed to start working early April.

The TJO is for a position in the NC2 environment, so I was reassured numerous times that they were exempt. Found out 2 days ago, that was not the case.

Not really sure what to do. Do I sit on my hands and pray everything works out prior to my retirement? Risks include us not having a job? A home? If I don’t sell my house and I get onboarded I’d have two mortgages.

I guess I am venting as I am not entirely sure what to do. I have no relative timeline nor does anyone I talk to. It is a bit intimidating that i won’t have a paycheck from the military in 2 months (I retire after 20 years service).