Not sure what the title should be.. but..

Do you and your partner plan when y’all have “do it” or is it in the moment or spare of the moment? I feel like my husband and I plan when we “do it”. Mainly because he works out of town so it’s harder on us. So we are like okay I’m ovulating so we need to “do it” on Saturday and Sunday and we talk about it. I feel like it’s never random anymore