anyone experience hate in other trans spaces?

I won't get into it cause I don't want to out the spaces I'm experiencing some weird behavior in. Just curious with other folks if they experience weird treatment from fellow trans siblings in other online spaces? I am new to social media and it was very jarring to have noncommunity mindset towards fellow trans siblings. i was just told to shut up and leave so idk. I tried to say hey, maybe we shouldn't say my preference for small boobs in my partners is because big boobs make me feel dysphoric and insecure. because that is shitting on other women or people with boobs in the name of saying what your "preference" is. i got so much rudness immediately it was wild. it was also speaking about bodies and a binary way. Idk maybe other trans folks don't care and want to be misogynistic after they come out as transmen or transmasc. just curious what spaces yall have liked or disliked or just if you have experienced this type of fighting in other online spaces with your fellow trans siblings.