Gay (LGBTQAI2S+) hookups don't exist????

There seems to be a problem Toledo has. I have been bringing it up online all over.

The problem is that when one is looking for some m4m fun, it does not exist anymore. Whether it's meeting in a public place, such as adult book store arcades, online apps and sites or by chance anywhere.... Nobody meets up anymore. Has m4m fun become passe? It's not just me asking. I went to an adult book store and had several conversations with guys there. They are also saying the same thing. I"m just the loud mouth that would confront this and ask. The folks at work already understand this is an issue. A side issue is also incompatability, meaning nobody wants to be a "male" in the bedroom.

Any thoughts why this is going on? When I was in Cleveland, Milwaukee, Columbus this never was an issue. In NW Ohio and Toledo/BG, it's a huge issue. Let me know your thoughts.

And No, I am not looking for "dates." Just asking a question.