"Theo was just a crush," so why is Calam the exception?

Disclaimer: I love Theloise but every time I try to sleep soundly, these thoughts occupy my head!

Frankly, its exhausting to hear the comparisons people on the main sub make with Theo, stating that he's "served his purpose" and that he was Eloise's Marina/Sienna/Tilly

While there are a TON of reasons why Theo plays a much more important role than just a first love (a new one of mine being that Theo and Eloise RECIPROCATED their feelings for the other), another has come to mind with the following fact:

Of all the supposed "initial" love interests, Calam is the only one who has been featured in Shondaland's website, TWICE.

Perhaps it might be because Calam has a great PR team, but I'll let the people in this sub make of it what they will 🤔