regular therapist made me feel bad

I am 2 days post TFMR. I see a regular therapist for previous anxiety and depression diagnosis. After informing my therapist via email about my loss, she wrote back indicating that she had a miscarriage and how it is a "different loss" and used the term "by choice or not by choice". During our session she kept using those words. It felt very invalidating. After a few hours or letting this ruminate, I went to TFMR therapist directory (I can link in comments for anyone in USA) and found one near me I will see 12/21. I'm glad I made this choice. Do NOT let any mental health professional make you feel bad or guilty about your story and your truth❤️‍🩹