Thoughts on this situation?

Hi! i will turn 16 in March and i wanted to have a big sweet sixteen (at a venue w 40-50 people) originally i was going to pay for it myself and expressed how i was scared i couldn’t afford the venue to my mother. she told me not to worry about the money, she’d cover it, it’s my sweet sixteen. she’s now crashing out bc of the price (which is lower than what she said was too much) atp i almost dont want one, if it’s less than what i want, i’ll be disappointed, if it’s what i do want, i’ll feel guilty.

sorry for the horrendous grammar, pls dont attack me, these are first world problems 😭🙏🏻