Tara’s height

What makes me so annoyed was when she said she's not a pick me she's just short so people just call her a pick me like girl?? I'm a tall girl so I have short friends and not a single one has ever mentioned their height to me. In fact, one of my friends is 4'11 and I'm the one always joking on about how short she is and she gets so mad. So does my friend who's 5'. Literally every short girl I know hates short jokes so why is she making it her whole personality?