Recommended toys for learning to achieve open legged orgasm? 37/f
Hi all!
Recently discovered this sub and I'm so glad it exists! I've been a syntribator all my life and enjoy it; my orgasms are good and I find edging particularly enjoyable.
However I feel like I'd like to start practicing open legged masturbation for two primary reasons:
- I want to orgasm during sex with a partner.
I'm currently single, but have previously come VERY close to climax from the "prone bone" position (frustratingly it has never truly happened, still probably my favourite position though). Also, for the "prone" position to actually get me close, my partner needs to be pretty big. That being said, sex is always enjoyable regardless of my partners size - it's just that's the specific position/size combo which historically has me closest to cumming and I'd like to try and change that.
- I am 37 and I don't know how sustainable Syntribation will be as I get older.
The way I masturbate is to lie on my side and squeeze my thighs together tightly, usually wrapping my legs around a pillow or towel (occasionally just my hands) . Recently, if I have been edging and the session has lasted a long time (it's not unusual for my sessions to last over an hour as I do really enjoy edging - a standard session is usually between 5-20mins) my hips will hurt afterwards and my thigh/calf muscles will ache the next day. I still want to be able to indulge myself as I get older, so I'm thinking I need to start practicing open legged masterbation.
SO, with all that in mind, does anyone have any recommendations for starter toys or just general advice?
Some potentially relevant info - I never really let anyone go down on me properly until my most recent partner (we broke up a few months ago). Once I was able to relax it genuinely felt amazing - he would spend a ridiculous amount of time down there and whilst I never came, the combo of his tongue and squeezing my thighs around his head also got me very very close.
I have also recently started open legged masturbating in the bath with the shower head - I was surprised how good it felt when I first tried it (I just let the water flow over me and experiment with the distance/setting intensity) and I get really into it, but still can't achieve orgasm without pressing my thighs together around the shower head and squeezing.
Thanks in advance for any tips or advice :)
Also, creepy PMs will be ignored -_-