First time modding ANY game.

Okay, can someone explain to me a step by step process in which I should add mods to Starfield on Xbox Series X? I know load order is an important thing and certain stuff you need but I’m unsure of the “make a save file before you start, do a hard reset, etc” so if someone could help me out with out, I would greatly appreciate that :)

Also id anyone has any suggestions they feel are safe and enjoyable for someone that is dipping their toe into this world, feel free to leave some suggested mods that I should download. I am mainly looking for stuff that mods ship and outpost building, since I feel those are the safest things to mod without messing up my current game. I would also like to look into visual and clothing/weapon mods as well. Or just feel free to drop your load order or whatever haha. Thank you in advance!