Does anyone else feel like their entire personality is just an awkward, boring, people-pleasing interviewer?

I mean I've managed to get my anxiety down to a level where I can actually have a conversation with somebody, but really all I end up doing is just awkwardly interviewing them and it kind of feels like I'm bothering them to some degree.

I can never really tell if they actually enjoyed the conversation or if they're just being nice.

I've never actually made any friends. I feel like everybody I talk to, there's just no chemistry between us. And it's kind of frustrating. I'm not really sure what components of a conversation make two people connect with eachother.