Hand Job vs. Blow Job – Which One is Better and Where to Start?

My wife F29 and I M33 are looking to explore new ways to connect intimately, and we realized that we’ve never actually tried hand jobs or blow jobs before. We’re both pretty new to this and want to introduce them into our relationship, but we’re not sure where to start.

I’m doing some research so I can have an open and informed discussion with my wife—she’s a bit shy about the topic, so I want to make sure we both feel comfortable.

Some questions I’d love to hear your thoughts on: • Which one (hand job or blow job) do you think is better for beginners? • Which one tends to be more sensual and intimate? • Are there any techniques, tips, or advice that made it more enjoyable for you and your partner? • Do women also receive and enjoy hand jobs/blow jobs? (I assume oral sex, yes, but what about hand stimulation?)

We’re just trying to take things slow and introduce new experiences into our intimacy in a way that feels natural for both of us. Any insights, personal experiences, or advice would be really helpful!

Thanks in advance!