Have you been angry and upset at friend? If so what did you do after?

Growing up as a people pleaser, I don’t really get upset at friends unless they deliberately wrong me and I do it privately.

Recently as I grow up I realise there are thing I do not like in people and I’ve told off two of my best friends for not valuing my time and just putting little to no effort in organising things.

I feel bad for disturbing the peace but I feel like it’s right to communicate my feelings but I feel guilty and I don’t want to fight them.