First Person ARPGs with good scaling?

Optional: also with weapon smithing

I'm looking for a game, that I literally start with bad stuff, wooden equipment or very weak equipment, to then scaling and having a lot of choices of equipment, that maybe for example some are with certain powers and enchantments.

Or optionally going for adventures to find ingredients for better equipment.

Edit: I played Elden Ring, DS3, GTA 5, Lies of P. So don't recommend these games, or souls like games in general.

I also forgot to change the post title, it doesn't matter if it's first person or third person.