9070xt from 4070 ti super

I received a surprising gift of 9070xt from my relative but I already bought the 4070 ti super a few months ago but forgot to tell her after I mentioned I wished a graphic card. Now I don’t know what to do. I checked a couple of online reviews and 9070xt has about 10-20% raw performance uplift, but I don’t know about how FSR4 goes compared to dlss as I’m relying on it heavily for all new games as my monitor is 4k 60hz and I mostly play 3a games. I don’t care about fg as I turn on freesync usually. And I do like raytracing effects. Should I sell my 4070tisuper or 9070xt, or just be honest to my relative and let her return it? Thanks!