Drowning in debt

House worth $415,000 Remaining mortgage $350k Credit card and LOC debt $125k Card loan $30,000 One Income - net $6,000 Expenses including min payments for credit debt is many times little over $6,000 Family of six - 4 young kids

I don't know how to get out of this mess we created. We spent more than we could afford and now we're paying the price.

What's the best way to get out of this mess without losing the house? I have $20,000 coming in a few months from now. What does the community think besides that I'm a fool? 😭 😞