Just need to vent

I absolutely can’t stand when patients come in my chair and make it so obvious they don’t want me to draw them. I would rather a patient be honest and tell me straight up “hey I don’t feel comfortable with you drawing me can you get the other lady” rather than making ugly faces, watching me like a hawk, telling me no one can ever find their vein (news flash: that’s not always the case) and acting like I stabbed them once I start my draw. It makes the whole draw tense and uncomfortable for me. I had to kick a woman out of my chair today cause she couldn’t stop making faces at me and wouldn’t stop making comments about how to tie a tourniquet and questioning why I’m feeling for a vein in that spot since no one else usually does. I removed her tourniquet and told her to sit in the other room while I get someone else to draw her. Like pls I’m uncomfortable at this point I can’t 😭