Piper and Alex

I just finished watching orange is the new black and I have been thinking about piper and Alex’ relationship. Specifically when piper went back to her old house and talked to Larry about being heartbroken about the recent breakup. Larry went on a rant around how piper has the need for wanting to be different and Alex satisfied that, basically saying that piper isn’t actually in love with Alex but more what Alex makes piper feel/believe in herself. Do you all agree with his rant?

Personally I don’t agree