I don't think I am non-binary however...

I've always viewed myself more as a person than a man/boy.

A being 1st, a male 2nd. I do not feel that I am not a man, I am comfortable as one, but the 'core' of me - my deepest self - I view as more of an entity without a particular gender. Does anyone else here feel similarly?

Maybe I am a he/they type of person? I don't really know...

I am undiagnosed but 99.9999% positive I have high-functioning autism with ADHD. I have researched and tested and confirmed my self-diagnosis so much that if I am wrong about being AuDHD it would be extremely surprising.

I'm wondering if this is a NT vs ND thing or not, so I am posting this here.

Edit: I really appreciate the response this post has gotten, it has really helped me understand all this stuff.