Help us choose a name

Baby boy is here for a week and we still haven’t decided on his name. There’s 2 we’re deciding between, but husband likes one and I like the other.

The names are Elian and Wesley.

For context we live in the UK but neither of us are from here originally. Our family is Dutch, Caribbean, and Canadian, and there are also some close Colombian family members through marriage.

Without revealing who likes which name more, some thoughts we had are Elian is unique but not too out there. Wesley has a neutral meaning and we are not religious. Neither is terribly popular in the UK, but also not completely unheard of. As an adult name, one of us thinks Elian is better (because Wesley ends with an e sound which one parent thinks is more cutesy, and also thinks Wesley is more of a lads name). The other thinks Wesley is a stronger sounding adult name.

We’re at a standstill and I want to get this baby named! I would appreciate any outside perspective.