Separation 💔2
Greetings good people incase yoi missed part 1 here it is
https://www.reddit.com/r/nairobi/s/HcqIEFg95U
this is an update of what transpired after.
First I would like to thank the reddit family for the advise that you gave I really appreciate.
so this is how things will be
wife will leave I will remain with the kids we will not move we will maintain current situation as is ie school, home etc I met her folks and they accepted my decision
Looking at my marriage from an outsider point of view here are the red flags I ignored
- Finances - she is a thrifty and always in continously debt
- Family - she came from a divorced family with she saw abuse from her parents.
- Friends - the current friends from 3yrs ago till date are either divorced or single
- Child - the game started at 1- 0
Anyways a new chapter begins, focus has changed and responsibilities have increased. Pray for me I get through well and she doesn't bring drama.
Again thanks alot for your support I truly appreciate