Hi therapist said this

My WP has cheated on me multiple times online, lied about his porn usage, paid for websites, only fans, and even had an affair based on pornography where they sexted for YEARS behind my back, said I love you, the whole package etc. fast forward. We decided to reconcile.

His therapist told him that I need to understand that pornography isn’t cheating and that’s just something men do. WTF???