2 and a half years in recovery

Here’s another random check in as I found the longer-term positive check-ins really helpful early on.

It’s a lot harder to do check-ins the more time passes as I don’t find being on this sub useful and will probably unsubscribe soon.

My husband is still in recovery. He’s had no slips since the very early stages. He still maintains all his strict boundaries etc that he set at the start but it’s very much second nature at this stage. I still occasionally get triggered but usually only if I’m already stressed/tired etc.

I obviously wish we never went through this but I’m not overwhelmed by it. If he relapses (or slips and doesn’t tell me) I’m done. It’s not a constant fear I have now though.