Anyone else feel like they are NOT treated better after losing weight?

Hear me out. I've lost 55ish lbs and I feel like there is no difference between how I was treated before and how I'm treated now. I still get virtually zero attention from the opposite sex, which does really bother me. All of my friends are coupled up and I'm sitting here wondering if I'm unlovable because I used to be overweight. I really do wonder if it's not an appearance thing and more that people can sense the low self esteem. I know that being as insecure as I am is not an attractive quality in a partner.

But I just feel like I'm a junior in college, I finally have the body I want, but it's almost as if I never lost any weight. People aren't nicer to me. People don't open doors for me. Men my age treat me pretty much the same. Don't get me wrong, I lost weight for health reasons, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little disappointed in how the rest of this has played out.