Increased Attention After Weightloss

This is going to sound very conceited and ridiculous, but I am sick of bottling it in. And I need to talk about it. I don’t even care anymore if it comes across as conceited. I’m a 30 year old female. My highest weight that I know of was 205 and I now weigh 154 and am 5’6.5”. I don’t know how to appropriately handle all of the new male attention. When I was fat, no one paid attention to me. I’d go on dates, and the men wouldn’t text me. Now that I lost around 50lbs, I don’t know how to cope with the new found attention, and it’s making me dislike men. Like sure if you think I’m pretty I’ll use you, but I know that’s wrong thinking and I know there is great men out there. I went to a singles event this week and men were asking me what it’s like being so pretty. And assumed dating wasn’t hard, but it’s a lonely place. I feel people see my physical looks and it’s hard for me to find something genuine. It’s weird. I go out and men are looking at me, they’re asking for my number, they’re telling me I’m pretty, they’re buying me drinks. I’m worried I’m becoming arrogant, and it’s hard to talk about this with people because it is conceited. Has anyone experienced this? How did you cope?