Soft VS hard approach towards Republican voters.

I have always been of the mindset to leave the door open for people to come over. But i remember back in the day i was still watching lil bro destiny with the approach to roll in the mud with them by the same rules. I'm wondering what do you think of this? Do you think that this is still a based take or we should offer the helping hand instead of making fun of people considering Trump's low approval ratings?