Toxic relationships

I just got out of a toxic relationship. I met my ex on this forum, and I was aware she had certain issues but I thought I was ready to handle the challenges that came with a relationship, I was wrong. I’m not ready yet because I’m focusing on my career and I need gentle support, not some girl that’s going to argue because I forgot to text her back. It’s not like I did it on purpose but she insisted that I was ignoring her and she needed more. I constantly told her that if I wasn’t showing her love in the way she wanted, that she should just leave but somehow she made me feel like shit for putting myself first. I normally wouldn’t put myself first if I felt like it was wrong but In this situation I don’t think I was wrong for making sure I didn’t stress myself out. I soon realized it was time to hit the road and get back on the right path. I understand where her frustration and pain came from but she literally tries to push everyone away and That’s not the type of women I want. My advice to all the lonely people that want love, please don’t rush anything and be careful who you give your love to.