Why are conservatives so hateful?? :(

I'm literally THIRTEEN. And I've gotten death threats from literal ADULTS who are conservative, all because I'm trans?? (FTM). Like, they claim they're peaceful and respectful, but they're so hateful to anyone who isn't in their exact idea of what a person should be. Like, why are you harassing literal MINORS?? And people like Brett Cooper, who make fun of LGBTQIA+ kids and kids who are therians.. like those are KIDS, find something better to make fun of?? And also they're so rude about ND people. They always claim they're "accepting" but if an autistic person (im autistic btw) is part of LGBTQ or they use neopronouns (I do both) they claim they're being "groomed" and "forced into it" as though ND people can't think for themselves?? I don't like conservatives :(