dealing with dating anxiety and insecurity

I’m 24F and have grown up generally attractive and outgoing. i’ve received a lot of male attention growing up and never struggled with having guys like me, but my recent dating life via hinge has been taking a toll on my mental health. I guess it’s the illusion of options but when i finally find a guy I sort of vibe with I get overly invested.

I’ve been on a few dates and have gotten rejected a few times, some guy said he wasn’t into a second date because he found things were boring. Another guy completely ghosted me after love bombing me for two weeks after I wouldn’t get sexually involved with him.

How can i not take things so personally if they reject me? I feel like whenever I actually like a guy i get worried I’ll do something and they’ll leave again and end up second guessing myself a lot. After a first date I start wondering if I actually am boring? I don’t think I am but I get why on first dates and need a bit to open up fully to people.