When a Femdom Gets Heartbroken: my message to Submissive Men /women !
Lately, I’ve seen some very sad posts from subs who feel hurt, rejected, or discouraged. It’s a tough way to start the new year, but what you guys don’t realize the dating scene is no better for femdoms as well ! i want to share an experience I’ve never told anyone because it left me feeling so ashamed and heartbroken.
Last year, I spent four months talking to a sub. Every morning, I’d wake up to his sweet worship messages, and at night, we’d text endlessly or talk until we fell asleep. We bonded over life, art, philosophy, and our favorite mangas. Eventually, he asked to meet, and I decided to travel to him. I didn’t want him to waste money on hotels—he could save it for romantic dinners with me.
After a 7-hour journey, we met and had an incredible evening. We talked, listened to music, and danced to classical songs until I passed out, exhausted and tipsy. The next morning, I woke early, cuddled him, and invited him to join me in the shower after my work Zoom call, promising the rest of the day would be just for us.
Then, out of nowhere, he turned on the light and said, “I need to tell you something... I don’t feel connected to you anymore.”
Stunned, I asked, “What are you saying? I just got here barely 12 hours ago … Do you want me to leave?”
His answer? “Yes.”
It felt like lightning had struck me. My heart shattered. I went to the bathroom, washed my face, packed my bags, and left without a word. Alone in a foreign city, I felt lost, broken, and ashamed of my naïveté. I got on a random bus not knowing where it is heading or where should i go , i cried a bit while hiding my face , but I pulled myself together.
I blocked him everywhere, found a coffee shop to log into my Zoom call, and booked a hotel for the next few days. Then, I took myself out to explore Florence—the museums, the food, the wine, and the architecture. Needless to say he tried contacting me through every possible method bcz he regretted his actions and i just blocked him from my life and moved on completely !
My point is this: no matter how much someone hurts us, loving someone is never a mistake. To love is to take a risk. Even when it doesn’t work out, love allows us to feel deeply, to experience life fully—and that’s what makes us alive.
To all the submissive men /women out there: don’t give up. Even femdoms face heartbreak and rejection , but the journey is always worth it. These are experiences one day when you will be old enough you will tell your children and partner while laughing at how silly life can be sometimes , and thanks to these experiences , you never gave up and they shaped the way to meeting your meaningful one
Ps : artwork is done by me , im a bit old fashioned i like to sketch with pen and paper
Lately, I’ve seen some very sad posts from subs who feel hurt, rejected, or discouraged. It’s a tough way to start the new year, but what you guys don’t realize the dating scene is no better for femdoms as well ! i want to share an experience I’ve never told anyone because it left me feeling so ashamed and heartbroken.
Last year, I spent four months talking to a sub. Every morning, I’d wake up to his sweet worship messages, and at night, we’d text endlessly or talk until we fell asleep. We bonded over life, art, philosophy, and our favorite mangas. Eventually, he asked to meet, and I decided to travel to him. I didn’t want him to waste money on hotels—he could save it for romantic dinners with me.
After a 7-hour journey, we met and had an incredible evening. We talked, listened to music, and danced to classical songs until I passed out, exhausted and tipsy. The next morning, I woke early, cuddled him, and invited him to join me in the shower after my work Zoom call, promising the rest of the day would be just for us.
Then, out of nowhere, he turned on the light and said, “I need to tell you something... I don’t feel connected to you anymore.”
Stunned, I asked, “What are you saying? I just got here barely 12 hours ago … Do you want me to leave?”
His answer? “Yes.”
It felt like lightning had struck me. My heart shattered. I went to the bathroom, washed my face, packed my bags, and left without a word. Alone in a foreign city, I felt lost, broken, and ashamed of my naïveté. I got on a random bus not knowing where it is heading or where should i go , i cried a bit while hiding my face , but I pulled myself together.
I blocked him everywhere, found a coffee shop to log into my Zoom call, and booked a hotel for the next few days. Then, I took myself out to explore Florence—the museums, the food, the wine, and the architecture. Needless to say he tried contacting me through every possible method bcz he regretted his actions and i just blocked him from my life and moved on completely !
My point is this: no matter how much someone hurts us, loving someone is never a mistake. To love is to take a risk. Even when it doesn’t work out, love allows us to feel deeply, to experience life fully—and that’s what makes us alive.
To all the submissive men /women out there: don’t give up. Even femdoms face heartbreak and rejection , but the journey is always worth it. These are experiences one day when you will be old enough you will tell your children and partner while laughing at how silly life can be sometimes , and thanks to these experiences , you never gave up and they shaped the way to meeting your meaningful one
Ps : artwork is done by me , im a bit old fashioned i like to sketch with pen and paper