Is this eugenics or ...

So this has been nagging at me. My spouse and I both have physical disabilities that have minimal effect on our daily lives, as in I was able to obtain higher education and now am a SAHP while he has held down a job for years, we support ourselves and are totally functional adults. His condition is less severe than mine, but is also more heritable and follows an autosomal recessive inheritance pattern. Mine is rarer and not extensively researched, but has never occurred on either side of my family in living memory, and what little research I have been able to find on the condition seems to point to it potentially being linked to environmental factors in utero. Our disabilities do not make us more susceptible to any other illnesses or conditions. We recently had our first child after a complicated delivery. Immediately after birth, literally as I was still waiting for the epidural to wear off, the on call pediatrician who was tending to our baby began asking us in what I would deem a forceful or insistent way whether we would like to be referred to a geneticist to rule out disability and for purposes of future planning. My husband's disability is more visible than mine, so it was immediately apparent that our child is not affected. Mine can be ruled out at a routine doctor's visit, and was when our child was five days old. I declined the offer of a referral and explained what I've written above, but the doctor didn't seem very pleased with that response. We had to be pretty blunt to make them drop the subject of a geneticist, and I found out later that we were still referred to a specialist to rule out my disability in my baby (I don't mind this so much). I just feel like there was an implication that we should not try to have more children or that we had made a mistake in having this one. The entire interaction put a sour taste in our mouths, but maybe it's some kind of standard practice for disabled parents that we just aren't aware of? I would appreciate some insight for anyone who might know more than I do. Editing to add that there was and is no concern that my child is affected. Both conditions can be ruled out via physical exam. My spouse's is more visible, while mine would have to be checked for in a medical setting, but it is possible to diagnose without genetic testing. The general concensus seems to be that I overreacted, especially in my use of the word eugenics to refer to this situation. Apologies. My main issue was with what I perceived as appropriate interest in us seeking genetic counseling for the future and a lack of willingness to drop the subject after I explained that I am already aware of the facts about our conditions and how they are inherited.