How to hook up with guys through the apps

I really have no idea how to steer the conversation towards hooking up. Like we exchange some banter, and at some point the conversation just … stops. What do I say? What do I do? Heeeelp 😭😆

I’m on feeld and on Grindr. On the first I do get matches but on Grindr I get no likes.

I’m not a bad looking dude, but obviously in my transition phase. I’m insecure guys don’t wanna hook up with me cause of this. But I wanna hook up with a guy SO BAD!!