Do I need a new surgeon? I'm fat.

I've posted about some of my journey so far on here before if you'd like previous context. It has evolved. I've been uncomfortable with my surgeon from the beginning. She has been hyper-focused on weight, which is fine to the degree that it matters for the success of my surgery, but she also implied I'm not telling the truth about my symptoms (I have a stone and a 10 years' history of attacks). She hasn't been a great listener overall to say the least.

I'm a week away from surgery, three pounds away from the weight target she asked me to achieve (she planned for a scenario where either I lost the weight expected or I gained an excessive amount back). I was supposed to get weighed on Monday to see where I was at and then we'd discuss if I should go through with my surgery as planned next Friday. She told me that she would refer me to the Bariatric Center should I gain an excessive amount of weight back. I told her I did not want Bariatric surgery--she said she intended the referral for gallbladder surgery only. After posting here on reddit and learning it was not uncommon to have gallbladder surgery performed by a Bariatric surgeon, I decided to set up a consult. The Bariatric surgeon told me under NO CIRCUMSTANCES would they ever take out a gallbladder without also performing a Bariatric surgery. I decided to hear the talk about Bariatric surgery, blah, I still don't want it. Literally tried to bully me into having it and told me diet and exercise weren't going to work for me, even though I'm actively losing weight right now. Well, in their notes, they wrote, "SHE SUPER WANTS THIS. SHE'S TOTALLY EXCITED ABOUT THIS." I never expressed that. I met with a nurse, the surgeon, and another nurse. I met with the last nurse for 5 minutes who just quickly downloads you with a bunch of financial info and a packet and asks if you want the surgery. I told her I didn't know and I needed to talk to my husband--somehow that translated to her as, "EFF YEAH, GIVE ME THE GD SURGERY." It's obvious she just copy and pasted whatever into the notes.

Fast forward to today, my surgeon calls me and leaves me a message saying she wants to cancel my surgery after reading the Bariatric surgeon's notes, because of my upcoming Bariatric surgery. Not his notes--the aforementioned nurse's notes. I feel so done, honestly. Should I just get a new surgeon at this point?

UPDATE:

Called my Primary Care and told them everything that had happened. They told me the surgeon had already canceled the surgery--just made me feel so effing deflated after all this time and all this work on diet and exercise. They didn't even wait for me to answer the message before canceling.

I have a new referral now with a new surgeon recommended by my PCP. Just feeling really shitty about waiting another few months for this. It's been 11 years of not being listened to. I'm just tired.