Am I the only one that despises arlefuri?

I see so much art of it, I just hate it sm. Maybe it's just how I interpreted the story and their interactions but it feels like shipping abuser x abused. It's so annoying looking for art of either without running into their ship art

Edit: note for everyone who hates all ships. You aren't the audience for this, I'm asking people that actually have an opinion on ships, I want actual opinions. Some arlefuri shippers have actually had really good cases. Thanks.