What does everyone here really WANT from someone from here?

I don’t think people actually know what they want when they a post here. People make a post saying they really want friends to talk to and how lonely they are then they just turn out to be the driest people ever? Like put some effort in. If your excuse is “that’s just my personality” then do better and atleast try to improve?

I don’t know you and for me it looks like complete disinterest. The type of dry people I’m talking about are people who answer with one word or one line that can’t be further talked about, never asks questions back and sits there with no engagement like I’m just a interviewer desperate to know more about them.

If you’re like that from the get go then no wonder you can’t keep friends or maybe you actually don’t even want friends. You just want validation that there are atleast someone online willing to reach out to you. Don’t get frustrated when you get ghosted because you didn’t put in any effort in the first place.

I get that most people here are introverts or socially awkward but I’m sure you can come up better replies. It’s not like anyone is putting a timer on you. I get that becoming disinterested in someone is natural but it’s definitely a problem if you’re like that from the very beginning. If you’re going to be like that then don’t bother accepting a chat request or start a conversation with me.

Also the some people who put up “I just want platonic friendships” then proceeds to make the conversation sexual or the people who DM others that only want platonic with other intentions.. just stop it.

Chatting with people online is actually worse than chatting with people in real life. Anyways this just to few people I have encountered so far lmao