Sgaeyl is ‘HER’

First time poster, long time reader. Big big spoilers. I JUST FINISHED onyx storm and my mind is racing. I listened to a bunch of RY interviews where she talks about her writing process, easter eggs, and the few hints/clues she gives us about whats to come and I have HUGE theory I just need to lay out. My plan is to reread the series immediately and go though it with a fine tuned comb but it will take me a while and I have to get this out NOW!! Lol. Ok here goes:

RY hinted in an interview that not all the dragons names may be who they really are because the rider gives the name to the person recording it based solely on what their dragon tells them it is. No one else ever actually hears it. SO:

I think that Sgaeyl is not Xaden’s dragon’s real name.

I think the HER that we keep getting reference to in the dreams, that the Sage kept asking Xaden to bring to him, is not Violet but Sgaeyl. Perhaps the Sage is a previous rider of Sgaeyl and that’s why Xaden says he can’t kill him. (This is also something maybe only Xaden knows and so he knows why he can’t kill the Save but none of us would know that yet. )

There is reference at the end (i’ll find the exact quotes later) that the reason for that is similar to how Xaden and Violet have a bond that can’t be fully explained yet either(she dies he dies, etc)… and so would this could be referring to some other type of magic or law we dont know about fully yet where you cannot kill the previous rider of the dragon you are bonded too? And also why the Sage wants Xaden to bring her to him because he wants his dragon back??

We know: if a dragon dies the rider dies, but if a rider dies the dragon can live. Given that we did see how Andarna’s bond to Violet could be severed we know it CAN be done… and given that Venin can survive without their dragons… whoever the Sage is MUST have previously been bonded to Sgaeyl no??? Maybe thats also why she was SO beyond pissed that Xaden turned because it had already happened to her before but now because all 4 of those guys are all mated and shit she can’t just sever her tie to Xaden because then her mate will die too?????

GAHHHH!!!! Thoughts everyone????? I’ll circle back with way more once I go reread books 1 and 2 :)!!!!!