How not to feel like you’ve ruined your life

I am a result of the culture. Got married at 18 to a man who had just gotten off his mission. I knew him for eight months. Got sealed and had a child a couple of years later. Now I’m a stay at home mom, going to college in hopes of being a lawyer, but I feel like I absolutely beefed it. I feel like I’ve ruined my life.

I am 21. I have experienced so little and am basically already locked down. I love my husband, he’s pretty happy in the church. I love my daughter. I can’t get these years back.

How do you not feel like you’ve fucked everything up for yourself? How did you gain your freedom back?