Anyone doing chill multiplayer games?

I have about 1500 hours in EU4 and I think it’s about time I venture into multiplayer. I’ve tried to do this on the bigger more official servers, but I haven’t found one that stuck with me. Im very willing to learn and follow any new rules that I might be unaware of, and im excited at the idea of fighting other players. If anyone has a server like that, I would love to join and would gladly accept any discord invites that get sent to me through DMs. Thanks in advance!