How do you feel about esfj?

Hi guys, I will try to make this one short.

No matter how hard I try I can't get along with my mother. I feel really disconected on the comunication level, and I'm begining to suspect it has to do with the compatiblity of our personalities. However I don't want to be take the final judgement and act accordingly without being 100% sure.

The second question that I have, how do you deal with them? weather you get along or not.