Trying to update firmware

I'm lost cannot update dji mini3 pro. Okay, I have had this thing about 2 weeks, when I flew it yesterday my screen said a firmware update was needed, so I clicked for it to update. The screen said I had no network connection, even tho I was about 20 feet from my house, no problem. Today sitting in from of my computer I decided to try again same thing. So I went to the DJI site, of course the AI is useless. It said to click in the lower right hand corner for the connection guide!!!!!!!!!?????

I have no such guide in my lower rt corner, pictures tell all.

So how do I get this thing to update without returning it to Amazon.