Dating someone with BPD?

Helllooo, the title pretty much sums it up. I’ve got a crush on this guy who is very open about his diagnoses on having BPD, I don’t see him super frequently but when I do - he is super caring, kind and just an absolute joy to be around! I have seen numerous posts about the dangers of dating someone with BPD. But this guy goes to therapy, takes meds and seems to be very across managing it (from what I know) I’m just wandering because I have my own little mental health problems (anxiety, adhd) and I’m just feeling really uncertain if it’s something I can handle or not. If anyone has any advice of experience it would be much appreciated!