Confidence, Acceptance and Indifference
I came up with what I refer to as 3-pillars of dating succesfully/healthy.
Confidence in who you are and what you bring to the table.
Acceptance of who are as a person and proud of that person. Don't try or wish to be someone you are not
Indiffernence of the outcome (whether when intially approaching someone or while dating).
I feel as though these attributes can 1) lead to success in meeting potential partners and 2) develop healthy and meaningful relationships.