Is anyone else so tired of hookup culture? Why doesn't anyone want to build a life together these days? I (35f) just want to have something more than casual sex!

I'm frankly pretty tired of hookup culture. I said i wanted a real relationship, and you said everything i wanted to hear... Until you got what you wanted from me. How do i trust what any man says when so many men lie just to get us in bed? Like, are we gonna have to make these men wait until marriage?? Confused. And I've heard tale that it's not just men either, that women are also embracing hookup culture for casual sex with no commitment too! What's your experiences lately?